We attended a Dato's son's wedding in Johor Bahru recently. He is a former District Officer of Batu Pahat. Of course being a Dato, the kenduri which took place in his house had to be commensurate with his status. Unlike a Chinese wedding dinner, a Malay wedding feast doesn't encourage you to stay longer than you should; guests streamed in, partook of the food and moved on to allow other guests to take their places.
There is nothing unusual about this typical Chinese wedding invitation card that can be bought from any printing shop were it not for the contents inside it.